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SAD NEWS

Yes, we are afraid it is true; in May 2008 Meet On The Ledge decided to call it a day after 15 years together. All band members, friends, family and supporters are being encouraged to contribute a piece to this site, which will hopefully give everyone a view of the break up from all angles, and allow everyone the opportunity of voicing their feelings about the band in general.

If you would like to contribute your own message to our newly-revamped site, please use the secure form on the CONTACT page. We will post as many as we can. Thank you to everyone who has already sent us messages of support.


Message from: Graham
If there's one thing I've found in my life it's that nothing ever goes on for ever, even though you may want it to.
 
You'll be sadly missed.

Thanks for some wonderful moments.


Message from: Simon D
Guys,
OK, this could be a sad moment - but better to look at the 15 years we did have of MOTL! From a (rather drunken) impromptu singing of "Mary Stanford" after the sight of a lifeboat at Saul Junction to the inspiring "Only Angels", there have been some greats. The music will live on, and you never know, it may end up with more reunions than the Who! If only we'd done the Good Ship Venus that year :-)
Cheers guys,
Smee


Message from: Jeni Hatton
Well, guys 'n'gal, gutted just about sums it up. Before Penny Short started we were MOTL fans, and remained so afterwards, and were grateful for Ron and Al letting us cover MOTL songs. Your support was amazing for us and we're going to miss you. Here's hoping you are all successful in your future musical lives.
Hope to see you around the circuit.


Message from: Lionel
It's all very sad but life goes on. Colvin Quarmby are a great band, and I am really excited at Al and Mabel joining them. In fact, that's two more tickets sold for Shrewsbury FF!

Gerry Colvin is larger than life and completely dominates CQ with his song writing and larger than life stage presence. Will Al get a look in on the song writing front? Will Mabel get air to breathe in a band that is all about introverted and very personal lyrics? Can't wait to find out! CQ are very ambitious and frustrated, I sense. Maybe the new line up will propel them onwards to great things?

MOTL were a great band, great people, leaving us with some great memories, but artists need to move on. Thanks for the memory, guys. Don't be bitter. Cherish the past. But look forward.


Message from: Pam Ashford
I just feel very sad. Meet on the Ledge was, in my opinion, the best folk/rock band I've heard. When I booked them on many occasions for Warwick Folk Club or Charity gigs I knew it would be a sell-out and it always was.

When they topped the bill at Warwick Folk Festival it was one of the most enjoyable fun evenings I have ever had. However I will miss most Ron's incredible voice which never fails to move me. Love to you all. Pam.x.


Message from: Christine Arnold
I am really gutted that MOTL has now decided not to be... I can remember hearing you play quite a few years ago, in the beginning, if you like, in the pubs around Kenilworth ...you were then and continued to be absolutely outstanding. It's a real shame that you are no longer going to playing your fabulous music together but maybe you'll end up like The Eagles and other groups... just having break for a while???
 
Here's to you all and THANK YOU for so many brilliant nights.
 
Luv and good luck to you all
 
Chris xxxxx


Message from: Pete Willow
Number one musical memory is singing along to The Song Will Remain/Drift Away - the classic MOTL end-of-set medley.
 
No, wait a minute - that's joint number one with standing in the marquee at Warwick Folk festival getting blown away by Ron's superb rendition of Al's Mary Stanford Of Rye.
 
Oh yes, yet another joint number one is sitting with a smile in the balcony of the Bridge House Theatre as Marion sings Al's haunting Harbour Lights.
 
One lesson from this is that we should always treasure such musical moments. They may never happen again.
 
But always the optimist, I'm holding out for a future time when the heat disappears, the bonds of friendship hold firm and plans get underway for a Meet On The Ledge reunion gig. I can already visualise the long queue of happy, expectant MOTLy fans getting ready to bop to Banks Of The Roses and groove to Matty Groves.
 
Until that fine day - thanks for countless great gigs, including two fabulous Godiva Festival sets, the superb performance during the Tsunami fundraiser at Brinklow and many many more wonderful musical memories.
 
I know each of you will continue to play top-notch music, no matter which paths you choose to follow. 'Indefinite' does not mean 'permanent' and I'm already planning what to write in the Coventry Telegraph when those paths do once more converge.
 
Meanwhile, in our memories and in our hearts, the songs will remain.


Message from: Alan Champ
Really sorry to hear the news that you've decided to call it a day, I'd like to take this opportunity to thank the band for all the great live performances that I've witnessed, from Warwick Market Square, Stratford Civic hall and even Smeg's back garden!

You truly are all very fine musicians and a fantastic band, you inspired me (Along with the mighty Status Quo that is) to take up the guitar myself, although to a far more basic level!! Once again thank you for the memories, you may have called it a day but your memories shall live on with each and everyone of us.


Message from: Ian Urch
I am sad to hear this, you guys have bought pleasure to our ears and have inspired us to perform, at the moment we are recording an album called (musical musli from Als Pen).

We will always play your music and will keep in touch, if you do want a holiday in fife, let us know.
 
Ian, Issy, Tam and Gareth


Message from: Jayne Lloyd-Smith
It's always sad when things end but perhaps even better days are around the corner.
 
Thank you for allowing me to share the stage with you from time to time as a backing vocalist - and for performing at both of the folk clubs and at the festival in Brinklow when I was involved in the various partnerships and committees.
 
WUTB always enjoyed sharing the bill with MOTL - I think fondly of the time on the town hall steps at Warwick Folk Festival, the Sailing Project gigs Lesley organised, the gigs Lesley Mabel and I did together, often with Alan riding shotgun on guitar. Gassing and giggling with the MOTL WAGS in a zillion pubs, back stage at festivals and concerts, drinking far too much red wine with Ron and Jane at Warwick festival, the 'outings' to see other bands where I was an adopted MOTLy - I shall cherish all these memories.
 
I wouldn't have missed being part of the fun for the world.
 
Keep in touch guys. Just 'cause I'm not on the scene doesn't mean I don't think of you . . . .


Message from: Gill Gilsenan
Hi folks,
 
Well what can I say, I wish you all the very best and hope you keep in touch. Is it really 15 years since we met!!!!
 
Take care be happy,
 
lots of luv
Gill


Message from: Pam Hemming
Oh what a sad day to hear that you are no more!!
 
I have been to many of your superb gigs, had an unbelieveable time with you at the Blackhorse festival. You are all fantastic not only as a band but as individual people. I wish you all the very best of luck for the future and consider myself very priveledged to have been able to witness a very special band. Good Luck! Love Pam xx


Message from: Pete Warren
VERY SAD NEWS INDEED. THANKS FOR ALL THE HAPPY MEMORIES OVER THE YEARS. YOU SURE GAVE US ALL SOME GREAT TIMES. TAKE CARE AND GOD BLESS YOU ALL. PETE AND BARBARA


Message from: Zoe Kemp
When I first heard that Al and Mabel were joining CQ I was very happy, it didn't occur to me that it would be the end of MOTL and now that happiness has turned bittersweet, I will still get to see and hear Al and Marion as I have been a CQ fan for years, however I will miss you Rocking Ronnie and also Phil and his costumes and Paul and his tin of Spam, thanks for all the good times you have given us, from the first time at Eathorpe Park Hotel to the last at Banbury Folk Club, with The Boat, Fylde, Cropredy and Birmingham Village Hall in between and not to forget some memorable New Years Eve parties at Coxes Yard, the yearly Christmas shopping outings to Stratford, there are too many to mention. Take care all of you, and here's hoping for some re-union gigs in the future.


Message from: Alan and Stella
Bummer, so you won't be doing the Black horse any more. It's where we met 9 years ago with the sound of MOTL's thrash Morris so there's always something a bit special about Meet On The Ledge. It's been a nice journey with countless beers spilled along the way. Good luck to all of you and thanks for the erm music !!

Alan & Stella, from sleepy Bexhill


Message from: Caroline Smedley
Meet on the Ledge have given us some of the best evenings' entertainment ever. SO sorry that we will not hear them again, except on the cds, which have been played and played. Also they brought folk music to the next generation - our daughter now 23 has been a MOTL fan for about 10 years and is much more open-minded musically than most of her generation. THANK YOU all for all the fun we have had.


Message from: Liz & John Perry
We will miss you! So many happy times, not least walking the Saxon Shore Way (complete with blisters!) knowing we were going to join up with the fabulous MOTL and friends for the Black Horse Festival in 2003. Then there was the very moving visit to the churchyard at Rye.... and concerts and gigs too numerous to mention. Thank you for the pleasure you have given us with your music. In our humble opinion you are the best folk/rock band we know. We cherish the memories and hope that one day there may be a reprise! We look forward to seeing Al and Mabel with Colvin Quarmby asap!

Best wishes to you all.
John and Liz (Acton Trussell walkers!)


add yours


 

OUR MESSAGES
(ladies first, then alphabetical order)

Message from Marion Fleetwood
I joined MOTL just after getting divorced and moving back to Stratford with my 2 year old daughter. It was a very rough time for me, and Ron, Al, Phil and Paul all took me under their wings and became such good friends. The same is true of Smeg, the Walrus and the MOTL wives. I can honestly say that Meet On The Ledge was the difference between me flourishing and going under.

So many acts of kindness and so much laughter have followed. When I brought them on stage at the Civic Hall a few years ago I called them ‘my boys’. I still think of them as that (in a purely platonic way!) and there will always be a MOTL playpen (complete with Lego, lager, mild, and raw meat) in my heart. For 10 years I was part of an extended family, who went away on tour and to festivals together and generally ‘licked the lid of life‘. I made lifelong friends through the band and I truly hope that us splitting will not end those friendships.

While we have had such good times, there are, I am sure amongst all of us in MOTL, memories of things we would have done differently, regrets about how things have been done and said, and hurt caused by things being done to us. Bands are after all made up of human beings aren't they? But the overwhelming feeling of needing to play with other bands and find my musical path is too strong to ignore now, and I can’t imagine being (and don’t want to be) at the end of my career looking back saying ‘what if?’, having quietly turned down musical chances in order to keep other people happy. It sounds a bit hard faced, but I hope you understand where I’m coming from.

Suffice to say, Al and I were invited to play with Colvin Quarmby for a one off gig in Rugby, the success of which has led to us being asked to join the band permanently. We were more than happy to keep MOTL going too (and CQ assumed this would be the case and were quite happy about it) as other musicians keep various acts going simultaneously (Show of Hands and Fairport to name just two). But everyone in the band needed to feel the same way. They didn’t, so we had to make a decision. I felt that MOTL could carry on, but if forced to choose I would have to go with the option which allowed me most musical freedom. Music is after all my job. All I really want to do is play my violin with whoever will let me!

Anyway - life goes on and I am now part of Colvin Quarmby - a band which I have admired for many years since we saw them at Cropredy in 2003. They are a great group of guys who are awesome to play with, and Gerry writes the most beautiful music. They have been really understanding about the situation Al and I have found ourselves in. If I was going to walk through any new door as the old one shuts, I can’t imagine it being with nicer people.

After our first gig in Rugby, as one blogger put it, "No-one knew who was enjoying themselves more, the audience or the band." I remember that being said of MOTL many times, and I will always look back on those times with absolute pleasure and with love for my band mates who took a bit of a chance having a girl in a boy band and taught me so, so much.

I also want to thank the people who came to watch us and supported us so fantastically. I don’t want to call you fans, because to me you were and are part of the MOTL family - I can’t tell you how much your friendship and support has meant over the years. So a huge thank you - I really hope to see you soon.

With love

Mabel,

Stratford upon Avon, 9th May 2008.


Message from Phil Dipple
Meet on the Ledge was, to me, always more than just a band, it was a family. Ten good years of fun and camaraderie. We had some great times. Coach loads of us ably transported around the country by Allen's brother Bob and later by our faithful 'roady' The Walrus.

2003 was probably our most memorable year, a new album and the chance to play The Cropredy Festival were only exceeded by playing The Symphony Hall in Birmingham in the September of that year.

When I decided in 2004 to 'dep' for The Earl Gray Band, Meet on The Ledge became 'Unledged' and carried on as a three piece. It was always hoped that at some time in the future the full band would perform again, but alas it now seems that is unlikely. I would like to personally thank all our loyal fans over the years for their support and friendship. I am sure all of us in the band will be doing other things so do look out for us. If Allen will let me I will mention that I am still playing bass with The Earl Gray band a rock covers band. (No, certainly not - AM).
 
All the very best.
 
Phil (the hat) Dipple.


Message from Allen Maslen
I can't begin to tell you how gutted I am at the demise of Meet On The Ledge. Ron and I first became mates when we were in Thud And Blunder together in the early 1990s. It used to be a standing joke that we would play together until one of us dropped dead. Sometimes in my role as during-dinner speaker I would trot out a line borrowed from Spike Milligan, saying that I hope Ron dies before me - I don't want him singing at my funeral. Spike's quote was, of course, about his lifelong mate Harry Secombe - ironically my great uncle. Yes, really. Anyway, back to the plot.

It is astonishing that we ever became friends at all. We are complete polar opposites in every way you can imagine. I am as shy as Ron is gregarious, I am as private as Ron is sociable, Ron is as manually practical as I am inept, Ron hates football but watches EastEnders, I don't and, er, don't. Yet despite these differences, or possibly because of them, we complemented each other perfectly on stage and off. We became great colleagues, and firm friends. Over the years we developed a private language - a sort of Ledgesperanto; like silly schoolboys we had a secret handshake, and we could converse with each other for hours without anyone having a clue what we were on about.

However, there was always one difference that threatened to come between us, and for the last five years or so it has never been far from the surface.

There are musical tarts like me who believe that it is essential to play with as many other musicians as possible in order to keep yourself fresh and inspired.

Conversely, there are musicians who believe that loyalty comes before creativity, and that any artistic activity outside the band is just not the done thing.

Nobody's right or wrong, there are just two ways of looking at it.

I, unfortunately or otherwise, have never been able to resist the temptation of playing with whoever asks me. I am always flattered to be asked, and I just want to play my guitar. As you may know, I have strummed on stage with numerous other wonderful artists, and Adrian Styles, during MOTL's lifetime, and have accepted invitations to appear as a session player on various CDs, knowing deep down every time that it would upset my old mate Ron. I have always been aware that I share one characteristic with Ron - stubbornness - so I have carried on regardless, figuring that as long as the diaries don't clash there isn't a problem. I just want to play my guitar. Does this make me a bad friend? Maybe it does. Discuss.

And that, really, is all this is all about. The excellent Dave Dutfield had left Colvin Quarmby, and they had a short term problem to solve. So when Gerry Colvin contacted Marion in March to ask whether she would like to sit in for a couple of gigs, and would her guitarist mate be interested in doing a bit as well, we both said yes. I just want to play my guitar. What is more, the invitation to step into the shoes of a guitarist as accomplished as Dave (Albion Band, Racing Cars) was not only a huge honour, but would provide me with a massive musical challenge.

Predicting that this would be hard for Ron to take, I drove over to his house to break the news, but he already knew. Suddenly two of his best mates were guesting with another band, and he felt a bit left out. Add to that the fact that MOTL had been quiet recently, Mabel and I had been doing a few jazz/folk gigs on our own, Mabel is recording a solo album, and I am doing quite a few shows with up-and-coming singer-songwriter Andrew James, Ron felt, as he put it, "surplus to requirements". I'm sure he won't mind me quoting him on that.

He took the whole thing badly and, for the only time in nearly two decades, we argued. It's funny how some marriages thrive for decades on a daily diet of nagging and bickering, while others can co-exist peacefully for years and be torn asunder by a single episode.

I sympathise completely with Ron. I just wish I could keep my musical freedom, and also keep Ron as a friend and colleague. Does this mean I want to have my cake and eat it? Perhaps it does. Discuss.

I shall immerse myself in my new role as guitarist/accordionist with CQ, and after two gigs I am already getting the customary amount of joy I have always got from playing with new, talented people. They are true gentlemen, and have been very understanding about the difficulty of this transitional period. It's actually quite nice to be 'just' a guitarist again. I don't have to worry about writing set lists, tuning other people's instruments, wagging my finger at people for having bottles of Smirnoff Ice on stage and dragging bass players out of the ladies' lavatory. But I don't half miss it. Will it ever happen again? Discuss.

Al, Tiddington, Warwickshire, 1st May 2008.


Message from Don 'Smegma' Ward
Message from the back of the room.
As the sound engineer for MOTL, I was tasked, because of having a large vehicle, with transporting, setting up, mixing & breaking-down the PA for the band for nearly 13 years. Performing at the very first 'Folk on the Water' at Saul Junction which started in a small tent holding no more that about 20 people, including the band, and supporting the event for many years, to becoming one of the biggest festivals on the folk calendar. Also being the first band to perform at the Ride-a-Cockhorse club at the Mill in Banbury, to the headline slot at the Black Horse Festival at Telham nr Hastings, and sharing in the band's achievement by mixing for them at Cropredy, and also stage teching at Birmingham Symphony Hall, to enjoying the 'not so well known' venues, like Shag's Place at Pewsey and various canal boat rallies which all made us very welcome. Over the years I have personally felt very honoured to have been given the opportunity to share in what I consider, although perhaps biased, to be one of the country's best Folk-Rock Bands ever. And most of all will miss the buzz of producing that MOTL sound.

Don 'Smegma' Ward
Sound Eng. 1997-2008.


 

 

NEW CROMER LIFEBOAT CD


It is a huge honour to have been asked to contribute a track to the Various Artists charity CD "Never Chance Your Luck Against The Sea". The album is a follow-up to "Someone Was Calling", which was released a couple of years ago to raise money for the Cromer lifeboat and celebrate its 200th anniversary. The new CD will also help raise funds for the lifeboat, and will feature our version of Shoals Of Herring.

We were invited to play at the CD's launch party at Cromer, but sadly we had to pull out of the gig because of our current circumstances. We would like to take this opportunity to apologise for any inconvenience caused, and wish Scott Butler and his team all the very best and hope the CD raises plenty of funds for this excellent cause.

Full details of the album, what is on it and where to buy it, are available on the LINKS page. Go on, get all your Christmas shopping out of the way now.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Band pictures on this page courtesy of  Keith Kitson